I have been playing "top" since about 9 years ago when I met my friend Bruce, he was interviewing me for a job. (He became my boss before my friend.)
"Top 3 bands?" he asked. I was flabbergasted. What kind of interview is this? He proceeded to ask about movies and books, and I recently generated top three for TV shows after rewatching Twin Peaks. So here are mine;
Music
-David Bowie
-Bob Dylan
-The Beatles
Films
-Harold and Maude
-The Royal Tenenbaums
-Cabaret
Books*
-Catcher in the Rye
-The Unbearable Lightness of Being
-Still Life With Woodpecker
Television
-Buffy the Vampire Slayer
-Twin Peaks
-Arrested Development
I love asking people this. And I try to always be prepared with my tops.
I asked Emilia's husband (then fiance) once about movies (since that's his jam), it might have been best movies of the decade that I asked about though, being freshly into 2010. He was a little caught off guard, unprepared with a list, but he ended up emailing me a well thought out list of like, 100. It was awesome.
How bout you all?
*I first thought of blogging about this after generating the TV top three, but I was embarrassed about the book section. Guys, I am not as literary as you all. This is a loose list here, one that I am not passionately attached to, so I feel a little, I dunno, like I shouldn't be claiming it, but I have to claim something. Anyways, after Michael**
**speaking of michael AKA the Flashdance, have you guys entered to win a free room at the Ace for his industry night?!??!
Harold and Maude is *my* favorite movie. You're just going to have to pick something else.
ReplyDeleteOh lord, trying to commit to three of each gives me palpitations. And will most likely keep me awake tonight. Thanks.
ReplyDeleteI love you, even if you don't get it.
(now I REALLY am unplugging.)
ReplyDeletemusic:
ReplyDeletenina simone
bob dylan
john lennon
leonard cohen
films:
blue velvet
wizard of oz
godfather
books:
the fountainhead
great gatsby
on the road
television:
twin peaks
sopranos
30 rock
daily show
FOUR IS CHEATING.
ReplyDelete{music}
david bowie
the smiths
the magnetic fields
{film}
pretty in pink
labyrinth
nosferatu
{books}
infinite jest
the master and margarita
midnight's children
{television}
buffy the vampire slayer
twin peaks
mystery! (the adventures of sherlock holmes)
Ahem ladies, actually Harold and Maude is MY favourite movie! So back off.
ReplyDeleteMy list, off the top of my head (so unlikely to be exhaustive):
Music:
Patti Smith
Sonic Youth
Leonard Cohen
Film:
Harold and Maude
To Kill a Mockingbird
When We Were Kings
Books:
Liquidation by Imre Kertesz
Cry, the Beloved Country by Alan Paton
Lucy by Jamaica Kincaid
TV:
The Wire
Man I love lots of tv but I have trouble thinking of three faves! Other than The Wire, which is duh.
Good job, ladies.
ReplyDeleteExcept I'm kind of not joking--it's mine.
What is WRONG with me today.
Music:
ReplyDeleteBen Folds (Five)
Jens Lekman
The Beatles
Film:
The Life Aquatic
The Science of Sleep
When Harry Met Sally
Books:
High Fidelity by Nick Hornby
Dress Your Family in Corduroy and Denim by David Sedaris
States of Mind by Brad Herzog
TV:
Northern Exposure
Star Trek the Next Generation
Twin Peaks
How to limit to a top 3?
ReplyDelete{Music}
Pink Floyd
Neil Young
Queen Adreena
{TV}
Buffy
Gossip Girl
SATC (early stuff)
{Books}
I just can't pick a top 3. Will return.
{Films}
The Virgin Suicides
The Breakfast Club
The English Patient
Amanda, it's cool. You are a worthy opponent.
ReplyDeletethis is very, very hard, but here's my go at it.
ReplyDeleteMUSIC
elvis costello
pixies
the smiths
FILMS
the graduate
some like it hot
amelie
BOOKS
east of eden
middlesex
where the sidewalk ends
TV
mad men
the office (uk version)
arrested development
JENS LEKMAN, cheryl! i very nearly put him on my list. it is actually impossible to listen to him without jumping up and down.
ReplyDeletesee now i want to rearange my booklist already.
ReplyDelete@celia my sister is reading middlesex right now and i want to re read it AS SOON as she is done. AND my soon to be nephew (brothers fiance's son) is coming to visit this weekend, we bought where the sidewalk ends for him!
Oh man, I'd answer, but it's already a perfect blend of yours and Celia's. Especially the Buffy and The Graduate. I guess I'll change my Top 3 artists to mix it up: The Stranglers, Scott Walker, and Otis Redding :)
ReplyDeleteOh. Crap. Maybe The Damned, too.
Not to be a brag or anything, but Jens actually slept on my couch after a show once. It was a totally surreal night and I was much too nervous to have a decent conversation with him. Some of the ladies that play music with him stayed with me as well, they were so sweet and pretty. One of my best days ever, hands down.
ReplyDelete@cheryl i have a similar story about will oldham. ;)
ReplyDeletewas it when he was on his anti-shyness tour?
ReplyDeleteOooh I LOVE top 5! It is a regular occurance at all of our family gatherings.
ReplyDeleteTop three seems harder (how to choose?? I love so many things! And my tastes are always changing...)
Music:
The Beatles
Mason Jennings
The Avett Brothers
TV:
The (British) Office
Sex and the City
True Blood
Film:
The Princess Bride (hands down my fave!)
The Anniversary Party
Garden State
Books:
High Fidelity (this is also in my top movie list)-Nick Hornby
The Handmaid's Tale-Margaret Atwood
Water for Elephants-Sara Gruen
i love playing top 3. but it is HARD!
ReplyDeleteok... (i still have some more i want to trade around - so difficult)
*music*
pixies (especially kim deal so i am kinda saying the breeders too... i know i am cheating so hard!)
david bowie
sparks (tied with the pretenders)
*films*
all about my mother
party girl
holy mountain
*books*
i love dick (chris kraus)
kicking (leslie dick)
catcher in the rye (j. d. Salinger)
*tv*
6 feet under
the muppet show
glee
music:
ReplyDeleterichard buckner
the beatles
danny schmidt
movies:
in america
harold and maude (sorry amanda)
rushmore
books:
franny and zooey
east of eden
slouching towards bethlehem
tv:
freaks & geeks
arrested development
house
I have never been able to play this game! Not even a little bit. My mind starts racing and then I get nervous and then I start to freak out a little. I can't even name my top three books. Paralyzed with indecision, every. single. time.
ReplyDeleteI think it stems from childhood trauma. They used to do this stuff as an icebreaker in school, except just with favorites. Favorite food, favorite song, favorite TV show. I was raised by a hippie (no normal food, no TV, lots of cohen records), so I knew that if I was honest my answers were going to make me sound completely weird. But if I tried to fake it then I would inevitably pick the wrong fake answer (like the popular TV show from 2 years back) and I would look even worse. God, school was terrible.
I'm going to have to stand in the corner with Rachel because I can never decide, either. Other than Bob Dylan and The Princess Bride. I change my mind too often.
ReplyDeleteMUSIC
ReplyDeleteThe Band
The Beatles
Bruce Springsteen
FILM
Breathless
Manhattan
Breakfast at Tiffany's
BOOKS
Big Bad Love
The Boys of My Youth
To Kill a Mockingbird
TV
Mad Men
Deadwood
Arrested Development
... I like this game; this is fun!
I am having an anxiety attack just thinking about my tops list. I'm going to need at least 24 hours and 1.5 bottles of wine before I decide.
ReplyDeletethe only band that matters is GBV (but only because of the reunion tour...)!
ReplyDeleteand hey, here's that list of 100, but only bc i feel like filling up a lot of space here...which might be a little nerdy, but whatever....
200 Or So Well Spent Hours in the 00’s
1. Duck Season
2. Mulholland Drive
3. Ballast
4. Oceans 11
5. Kings and Queen
6. The Royal Tenenbaums
7. Lord of The Rings Trilogy
8. 40 Shades of Blue
9. Goodbye Solo
10. Battle Royale
11. Gozu
12. Half Nelson
13. Children of Men
14. Y Tu Mama Tambien
15. Talk to Her
16. Volver
17. George Washington
18. Rachel Getting Married
19. A Christmas Tale
20. Wall-E
21. Grizzly Man
22. Capturing The Friedmans
23. Twilight Samurai
24. Cabin Fever
25. Great World Of Sound
26. 28 Days Later
27. Broken Flowers
28. Bad Lieutenant
29. Punch Drunk Love
30. Monster’s Ball
31. City of God
32. Grindhouse (as the double feature)
33. Inland Empire
34. Gerry
35. Eternal Sunshine of The Spotless Mind
36. Hedwig And the Angry Inch
37. Wet Hot American Summer
38. The Good Girl
39. Up The Yangtze
40. Spirited Away
41. Be Kind Rewind
42. 4 Months, 3 Weeks, and 2 Days
43. Sideways
44. Capote
45. Friday Night Lights
46. Let The Right One In
47. Squid and The Whale
48. Moulin Rouge
49. Red Road
50. I Love You, Man
51. In The Bedroom
52. Margot At The Wedding
53. Chop Shop
54. Hustle and Flow
55. The Son
56. Amores Perros
57. Inside Man
58. Last King of Scotland
59. American Psycho
60. Almost Famous
61. The Company
62. Cache
63. You Can Count On Me
64. The Dangerous Lives of Altar Boys
65. The Secret Lives of Dentists
66. The Fog of War
67. All The Real Girls
68. Far From Heaven
69. Gosford Park
70. Audition
71. Pan’s Labyrinth
72. The King
73. Shortbus
74. Donnie Darko
75. Old Boy
76. In The Mood For Love
77. Big Bad Love
78. Wendy and Lucy
79. There Will Be Blood
80. Amelie
81. The Barbarian Invasions
82. Spiderman
83. The Lives of Others
84. Far From Heaven
85. Goodbye, Lenin
86. Maria Full of Grace
87. The New World
88. The Swimming Pool
89. The Diving Bell and the Butterfly
90. Tarnation
91. The Edge Of Heaven
92. Dogville
93. The Descent
94. Whale Rider
95. Borat
96. Synecdoche, NY
97. Chuck and Buck
98. Superbad
99. No End In Sight
100. Two Lovers
Bianca, I think my husband has a crush on you now for putting Holy Mountain in your top 3 movies!
ReplyDeleteDude...we had two readings from Woodpecker in the ceremony!
ReplyDeleteOk I'm going to attempt this but never asked me to repeat it because most likely it cannot be duplicated.
MUSIC
fuck...I'm stuck already...
um.
ok.
Nirvana (I'm a 13 year old from 1993 stuck in a 30 year old's body in 2010, what can I say)
Tom Wait and Leonard Cohen (hey, they're tied)
PJ Harvey
FILM
The Women
Une Femme est Une Femme or Amelie
Labyrinth
BOOKS
People of Paper
Jesus' Son (actually I have to reread this and see)
The Book of Laughter and Forgetting
TV
Six Feet Under
My So-Called Life
90210 (don't judge)
PS: I apologize for my husband. He is a madman.
ReplyDeleteobviously not the only person who cheated (um, felt cheated by 3 choices!!!) love reading everyone's bests... @emilia NIRVANA!!!!????!!! yesssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss!!!
ReplyDeleteYes! Harold and Maude is my perennial favorite, too! I first saw it about six years ago, and it was love instantly. Catcher in the Rye is tied for first in books for me, along with Cat's Cradle (Vonnegut... actually, any Vonnegut book).
ReplyDeleteok, yeah I'm sucked in now.
ReplyDeletemusic:
bob dylan
richard ashcroft
the beach boys
movies:
Sunshine of the Spotless Mind
Breaking the Waves
American History X
Gone with the Wind (i'm a cheater too)
books:
the alchemist
siddhartha
i shock myself: the autobiography of beatrice wood
tv:
breaking bad
mad men
my so called life (holla Emilia!)
THREE IS SOOO HARD. MIND SPINNING.
Novels (last 10 years):
ReplyDeleteA Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius
The History of Love
Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close
Novels (pre-2000):
East of Eden
Anna Karenina
The Bonfire of the Vanities
p.s. I'm so glad you did this. Summer reading list.
ReplyDeleteF*CK!!! MY SO CALLED LIFE! WHY DIDN'T I THINK OF THAT?!!
ReplyDeletetom waits
ReplyDeleteneil young
kinks
rumble fish
up in smoke
the party
post office
the hero with a thousand faces
me talk pretty one day
twin peaks
buffy the vampire slayer
wonder years
Books.
ReplyDeleteJames & the Giant Peach
How to kill a Mockingbird
23 Minutes in Hell
Music.
Sublime
Chiodos
Escape the Fate
Movies.
The Labyrinth
Dazed & Confused
Alice in Wonderland(the original)
Teli.
The Cleveland Show
Aqua Teen Hunger Force
Family Guy
Oh, this is fun- I'm a HUGE list person!
ReplyDeleteMUSIC
Kate Bush
Arcade Fire
The Smiths
BOOKS
The Remains of the Day
Wuthering Heights
The Scarlet Letter
FILMS
The Science of Sleep
Away We Go
In the Name of the Father
TV
Dawson's Creek
McCleod's Daughters
Grand Designs UK
I can't believe Ben and I don't have ANY of the same top threes in music. But that's just the thing, (ahem, naurnie) it might change day to day. This is really just a snapshot of what we think today, our all time favorites are, right? Wow, harold and maude represent!
ReplyDeleteashley for a GREAT summer reading list check out this post, looking for book ideas for my little sister, but SO MANY are on there that I enjoyed as an adult.
@emilia yeah kundera!
@bill, you slay me. But are those in order? There are a few I can't get behind. I couldn't even finish watching I Love You, Man. Ben either, so it is not just my distaste for that general genre.
J.
ReplyDeletethose are not even remotely in order....and that was just a 00-09 list.
as for i love you, man...i can't say i don't blame you. the apatow universe can get tiresome, but i still think it's a well done bro-mance and one of the funnier films i remember seeing from that time. crush on RUSH? indeed.
but if you want to know my absolute, 100% all time fav....a woman under the influence. so real and perfect and wonderful....
jamie.
ReplyDeletei'm doing this. because i lurv you. and for no other reason. this also comes w/ the disclaimer that these things change for me on a daily basis, but the number ones never change for me. just the #2 + #3 slots can change on a whim.
ready, set go:
music:
bob dylan
tom petty + the heartbreakers
gram parsons
books:
to kill a mockingbird
other voices/other rooms
middlesex
movies:
harold + maude (yes, i'm adding to the list of harold + maude crazies. i first watched it at camp at age 11 when an amazingly cool counselor made us watch it on a rainy day).
almost famous.
the goonies.
tv shows:
the wonder years
freaks + geeks
hoarders
oh geez. I wasn't going to play, but now I'm sucked in. This is terribly difficult, btw. And these are just off the top of the head, mind you. Without serious pondering... Must qualify my answers in case I remember something better after I commit these to the blog-space forever.
ReplyDeleteMusic
The Beatles
Bob Marley
Bob Dylan
(come on with only picking 3, I feel I must pick classics)
Films
The Party
Best in Show
The Life Aquatic (insert other w.a. title here)
Books
East of Eden
Sometimes a Great Notion
The God of Small Things
(the books category REALLY isn't fair, btw. I am leaving out only 47 others that I love as much. Maybe this category should have been authors? So I could have included everything by Tom Robbins, Tom Wolfe, Michael Chabon, Anne Lamott, ... man I really suck at this)
Television
Mad Men
Sex and the City
(sorry, I cannot think of other shows that I REALLY insanely love)
That became oddly stressful at the end there.
Why is my post all weirdly spaced?
ReplyDeleteThis is such a fun post and the responses have been great. I had to share the idea on my blog too - you've inspired me.
ReplyDeleteMine are (but subject to change):
Music
- Radiohead
- The Beatles
- Tegan and Sara
Films
- The Life of Brian
- Amelie
- Donnie Darko
Books
- Everything Is Illuminated - Jonathan Safran Foer
- The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time - Mark Haddon
- Jonathan Livingstone Seagull - Richard Bach
Television
- Twin Peaks
- Buffy the Vampire Slayer
- Spaced
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